Of Bad Boys and Girls

Being nice and gentlemanly but still can't land the girl of your dreams? Was with her when she was down and defended her when she was getting diss, yet she says she wants to be just "friends" ? Time for a new gameplan gentleman, be bad, not just bad, but bad to the core... Ever wonder why the jerk/bastard/two-timer land the girls? They treat woman-kind like crap but yet, they still get the babes. Doesn't that tell you alot?

There's this Chinese saying that goes "if a guy isn't bad, a girl wouldn't have interest in him" Driving a girl around, listening to her problems, holding the door and paying for dinner, isn't that like the foolproof formula to get the girl? Apparently NOT, alas, how times have change, its more like, give the girl more attention and they would be thinking "boring, no challenge, lets find for someone else." You probably end up being their "best pal" or something. (That means not being able to get into her pants while she's sober, and you wouldn't want that =P Anyway getting into her pants while she is drunk or something is just wrong !) But on the other hand, be cool, and don't fall head over heels for her and she would be questioning where exactly do she stand in your eyes.

Girls are attention seeking beings. They strive for attention, don't give it to them and they want it! Get me? And it amazes me to this day why girls need approval from BAD BOYS. (Yup, not nice boys but BAD BOYS, heck i don't think most girls even care what nice guys think about them, because nice guys only SAY NICE THINGS! Thus the logic =P) Girls say they always end up marrying the good boys. But how many of you boys out there are going to get married soon?! Hands up please! That's what i thought, at our age, marriage is the last thing on our mind. And even if nice guys end up marrying the girl of their dreams, thinking about the amount of guys she's been with kinda freak at least me out =_=''

Lol, so how do the good guys overcome this? How could someone ordinary and armed only with a heart of gold, win over a girl from a hot, sexy, athletic, charming bad boy with a devil may-care attitude you ask? Er...lets see,

1. Have a bad boy persona! Get a few bunch of friends and ask them to play along when you tell your crush about how u heroically beat up 10 guys that pissed you off. Or how you intimidated your teacher to give you an A for a project or something. (A guy with a notorious past somehow get more brownie points)
2. Get the bad boy image! Having a Mop looking hair? Time to change man! Go spike your hair up, the higher the better =P Get a few piercings and while you are at it, why not a tattoo too that says "I AM BAD TO THE BONE"
3. Be over-confident, (yup, being over-confident is much better than no confidence) walk with your chest sticking out! Nothing oozes sex appeal more than confidence. (Just don't look like a sohai while doing it and those with man boobs should just skip this part =P)
   

Okay, now that you are a full-time bad boy go get that girl of your dreams! They always say bad boys never win. Yes i agree with them, bad boys never win, they just finish first (:
Man i am freaking tired, rock-climbing is so energy draining, i don't even know how a rant turn into some wisdom post LOL

Random RANT: And i think "Stranger than Fiction" is such a smart, entertaining yet enlightening movie. And i can sincerely say that i enjoyed it! Live life to the fullest people!!

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But at times, the good guys gets the girl too (: Jin and his curly hair with hot girlfriend stef doing some weird face and Uber-cool Jian ^.^